Rick Arellano

Author & Storyteller

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About the Author

Rick 
Arellano

Former pickup artist, Authentic Man Program grad, infinite game guide (Carse/Sinek style). I expose the 2005 seduction crash, helping guys ditch scripts: build lasting vibes, bust rejection myths, seduce naturally. Three no-nonsense books deliver tools—meet women easy, spark real tension, connect effortlessly.

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The Art of Being Present

So I was debating with myself if going out or not, and I was calibrating the moment and, I'm super aware in these moments of: the world, and my desire to, if we break down desire could be a desire for experiences that are simple, which is certainly most attainable …

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Just start

I was packing my portfolio, went to the courier, and paid the price to send it to one of my heroes.

Months earlier, I had a dream about it, and a friend was instilling in me to ‘just start’, just start working. I was in the middle of an architectural …

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A new take on stress

A new take on stress

Note: This is a re-upload from 2023. Minor edits

For a lot of guys talking to strangers generates a level of stress, that distance to cover is too high, it’s too much. And we contract a little bit, a reaction from the body.

The …

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My Books

Book 1

The Fragments Of The Game

A brief inquiry into the decline of the pickup artists communities

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Book 2

The Authentic Building Blocks

The journey and influence of Authentic Relating in South America

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Book 3

Without Paying Attention

A fictional tale about artists and their seduction methods .

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