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ESSAYS
It was all an interpretation
"That, I would love to hear about," He said, when referring to topics they already know, circles that they've already circled.
In 2023, it was hard to leave out the cool ideas and serious good sounding bites of the program I've already talked about (AMP). But I wasn't ready to …
Read MoreGuys are stuck in first position
I went to say hello in public. I felt some chills realizing this before going out. I got a bye bye, and my response was louder than I would like it to be.
Let's break this down.
After recording an audio about my experiences with women in a local context …
Read MoreThis is your yoga
The guy is up for the exercise in front of one of the female AMP coaches. He has to ask her questions while she sits in front of him with a loving expectation, so to speak. The guy first question didn't land, as she hesitates. After a couple of directions …
Read MoreThe template of the house
A friend of my dad came to pick some stuff he had left for him. I opened the door and exchange a few comments about the career I'm studying, for a second time as an adult. He says: you are only missing the title, cause you are already an architect …
Read MoreA comment like this
"I’m pacing", Decker says to the girl in front of him to reassure the context and let things unfold with intention, a bit of control of the recording set up and a way to let her know where he's at.
As conversations become stalled and time seems to pass …
Read MoreExcuses to not be present
I just exploded.
It happens to be just the flavor of rage that my sister used to play on me when I was younger. I never quite get she was hurting. I only remember my reaction to it. Was a brief moment, but now I get that something happened prior …
Read MoreTo be cool
After watching a video about Zuckerberg new outside in change, we can start to question its nature, and why it seems to work.
it's 2013 and the integral center, a coaching center on circling and meditative community practices release an online program to cover our neglected areas called The List …
Read MoreA practice
Edits from 2021
Four years ago, the architects were there, in one of the places to be, Harvard. Michael Hays presents them, and they start doing what they always do, same slides, same projects (they re-arrange them according to the occasion), and then time to answer some questions.
I’ve …
Read MoreThe Eraser
from 2019
Computation, in the binary, trigram and hexagram sense [1] is true. Society is predictable, and runs in cycles.
When things are fucked up, you call the eraser.
Sounds religious doesn't it. Even toying with the idea seems crazy.
Playing with a detonative artifact. Sounds true and bullshit at …
Read MorePreview
The last video
While I watched Bryan contain a young man in an emotional catharsis, I got more sober about the process. This is a course in Oslo, Norway. The course was called Morten Hake Summit, an event named after the organizer, that invited the most respected coaches and men in the pickup and personal development scene. This was Bryan’s take on the value of feedback cultures, a video available for purchase in the Vimeo platform. They are doing practices for fostering feedback and awareness on how to communicate our expectations and reactions from the other. Bryan then invited the participant to practice a very short version of the feedback loop with a woman, all in front of an audience. The feedback process is basically a silent approach—getting close to another person without saying a word. Guys all over are worried about what to say when they approach a woman or a highly renowned person. This process eliminates that need. We say a lot without even opening our mouths.
«Decker said that, after a major breakthrough, he decided that he would no longer say, “This is it.” Because another breakthrough always proved him wrong.»
