Rick Arellano

Author & Storyteller

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About the Author

Rick 
Arellano

Former pickup artist, Authentic Man Program grad, infinite game guide (Carse/Sinek style). I expose the 2005 seduction crash, helping guys ditch scripts: build lasting vibes, bust rejection myths, seduce naturally. Three no-nonsense books deliver tools—meet women easy, spark real tension, connect effortlessly.

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ESSAYS

Guys are stuck in first position

I went to say hello in public. I felt some chills realizing this before going out. I got a bye bye, and my response was louder than I would like it to be. Let's break this down.

After recording an audio about my experiences with women in a local context …

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This is your yoga

The guy is up for the exercise in front of one of the female AMP coaches. He has to ask her questions while she sits in front of him with a loving expectation, so to speak. The guy first question didn't land, as she hesitates. After a couple of directions …

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The template of the house

A friend of my dad came to pick some stuff he had left for him. I opened the door and exchange a few comments about the career I'm studying, for a second time as an adult. He says: you are only missing the title, cause you are already an architect …

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A comment like this

"I’m pacing", Decker says to the girl in front of him to reassure the context and let things unfold with intention, a bit of control of the recording set up and a way to let her know where he's at.

As conversations become stalled and time seems to pass …

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To be cool

After watching a video about Zuckerberg new outside in change, we can start to question its nature, and why it seems to work.

it's 2013 and the integral center, a coaching center on circling and meditative community practices release an online program to cover our neglected areas called The List …

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A practice

Edits from 2021

Four years ago, the architects were there, in one of the places to be, Harvard. Michael Hays presents them, and they start doing what they always do, same slides, same projects (they re-arrange them according to the occasion), and then time to answer some questions.

I’ve …

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The Eraser

from 2019

Computation, in the binary, trigram and hexagram sense [1] is true. Society is predictable, and runs in cycles.

When things are fucked up, you call the eraser.

Sounds religious doesn't it. Even toying with the idea seems crazy.

Playing with a detonative artifact. Sounds true and bullshit at …

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Store - the books available

Book 1

The Fragments Of The Game

A brief inquiry into the decline of the pickup artists communities

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Book 2

The Authentic Building Blocks

The journey and influence of Authentic Relating in South America

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Book 3

Without Paying Attention

A fictional tale about artists and their seduction methods .

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